You should not be "arguing" with your father in the first place. As Muslims we are taught to be obedient to our parents. Yes, we can discuss, and might disagree, but it should never escalate to a level where we argue, or be disrespectful in any way. It is for this reason that if someone does get to this stage of arguing with a parent, they must give in, apologise, and seek forgiveness from the parent.
With prayers for your success.