In Islam, duʿāʾ (Arabic: دُعَاء, plural: ʾadʿiyah أدْعِيَة), literally meaning "invocation", is an act of supplication. The term is derived from an Arabic word meaning to 'call out' or to 'summon', and Muslims regard this as a profound act of worship.
Imam Jafar Al-Sadiq (AS) was asked a similar question by a person called Maisarah. Imam replied him: O Maisarah, keep on praying and nether think that the matter has been ruled out.
you should keep praying and seeking from Allah to grant you what He knows that it is good for you.
1. There is no evidence that your marriage was blocked by black magic and you should never surrender to this claim. Those who think that they are under the effect if black magic, get harmed even if there is nothing done against them, but they themselves harm themselves by thinking that they been under back magic.Even if there is any possibility of bad thing done against you, you can easily remove it away just by reciting Ayatul Kursi, Sura Falaq and Sura Naas after Prayers.
2. Reply on Allah's Mercy and trust that He will never let you alone. Seek His help always and supplicate and seek His support.
3. Recite this verse as many times as you can especially after every Prayer: إنَّ هذا لَرِقُنا ما لَهُ مِن نَفاد INNA HAATHA LARIZQUNA MAALAHO MIN NAFAAD (Sura 38, verse 54). This verse has great benefits in many matters including marriage.
4. Recite this Quranic Du'a : ربِّ لا تَذَرني فَرداً وَأنتَ خَيرُ الوارثين RABBI LA THATHARNI FARDAN WA ANTA KHAIRUL WARITHEEN. (Sura al-Anbiyaa', verse 89).
5. Repeat Salawaat (ALLAHUMMA SALLI'ALA MUHAMMAD WA AALI MUHAMMAD) and Istighfaar (ASTAGHFIRULLAH RABBI WA ATOOBU ELAYH) and (La Hawla wala Qowwata illa Billah).
Although reciting a dua and praying for your husband would be a good thing to do, but it on its own will not eliminate the problem of alcoholism, him creating problems with those around him or his immaturity.
You will need to seek intervention, by requesting his elders and even a therapist to instruct him on how to stop stop drinking and to improve his conduct. Such an individual should not be left to behave in this way, as it will certainly affect your marriage, and also your children as well, if you have children.
His insecurities might be because he was spoiled from his childhood, or sees others as a threat to him, or whatever reason it may be. You must try to reassure him of his good qualities, and support him in what's challenging him, but you cannot do this all on your own. Speak to elders in the family, a professional counselor, and whoever else that can assist your husband in what he is going through.
With prayers for your success.
1. YA WALIYYAL 'AAFIYAH NAS'ALOKAL 'AAFIYAH يا ولي العافية نسألك العافية
2. ALLAHUMMA IJ'ALNI FI DIR'IKAL HASSEENAH ALLATI TAJ'ALO FEEHA MANTOREED.اللهم إحعلني في درعك الحصينة آلتي تجعل فيها ٫تحت تريد
4. Night Prayer; Salat Allayl ( Namaz Shab) every night.
5. Ziyarat Ashura every day.
1. Performing Wudhu before going to bed.
2. Reciting Ayatul Kursi and Sura Falaq and Sura Naas.
3. Reciting Tasbeeh of Fatima Al-Zahra (AS) and repeating it till you sleep.
If you want to recite Quran as Tilawah تلاوة our Tarteel ترتيل as Allah says in Quran : ورتِّل القران ترتيلا you must recite with your tongue and lips. Even if you want to recite Quran as Qira'ah قراءة as Allah says فاقرؤا ما تيسر من القران٬which is less degree than Tilawah, you need to use your tongue and lips. If you just look at the Quranic text with out using your tongue and lips, it will not be called reciting (Neither Tilawah nor Qira'ah) but just looking at the Quranic text, which is also good but it is lower than both degrees of reciting.
Du'a can be recited in any way as far as your heart is supplicating to Allah (SWT) and not just looking at the text.
Yes, you are allowed to recite with your mouth closed.
And Allah knows best.
The most important conditions of Tawbah (repentance) are:
1. To really repent the sinful act and,feel sad and sorry about it.
2. To firmly decide not to do it again,
3. Immediately returning the rights of others if the sin involved rights of others. No Tawbah can be granted with out these conditions which are obligatory and compulsory.
It is very important to seek the Waseela of the Prophet (SAWA) and Ahlul Bayt (AS) in getting our supplication and Tawbah accepted by Allah, as we read in Quran Sura 4, Verse 64 (Had they when they did wrong, come to you, and begged Allah for forgiveness, and the Prophet prayed for their forgiveness, they should have found Allah accepting their repentance and Merciful). No doubt, when the Prophet is no more among Muslims,BT heir real successors Ahlul Bayt are in his place.
Giving Zakat and Khums is obligatory on those who have. Giving charity is always good and helps in purifying ourselves from sinful acts.
By making us in pairs, the Qur'an is saying that we are pair-able, not that we are specifically created for one other person.
Some people marry many times, some marry none, the Prophet had quite a few wives, so it isn't appropriate to say there is a single pair that is written.
Predestination and free will is a blurry area. Perhaps sometimes marriage is predestined and sometimes it isn't.
In any case, it is wrong to say that it is wholly written because there is at least the appearance of free will when we choose to marry someone or not to marry someone.
Sometimes the argument that marriage is predestined is used to justify other wrongs such as cultural taboos on marriage or wrong reasons for rejecting someone.
Also, our understanding of destiny is that there are two types of destiny, things that are absolutely fixed and things that are changeable. So even if we are destined to marry someone, we don't know for sure whether this is fixed or changeable. Allah, as the all-powerful, has the option to change destiny in any way. Prayer is said to change destiny.
Plus it is always good manners to pray to Allah and acknowledge Allah as the source of all things.
So it is always good to pray!
Willpower can be strengthened by strong decision and continuous training to avoid desires and do good which goes against our desires. Fasting, Performing Wudhu during cold weather, Performing Night Prayer, Performing Fajr Prayer on time are few examples of the practical ways to strengthen willpower. In general, willpower needs training to be stronger whenever we have options of either to follow our desires or our intellect.
There are many Du'as in this regard e.g. Du'a Kumail (QAWWI ALA KHIDMATIKA JAWARIHI WASHDOD ALAL AZEEMATI JAWANIHI
قَوِّ على خدمتك جوارحي واشدُد على العزيمة جوانحي
Yes it is permissible to recite Du'a and mention the name of Allah everywhere. We have a Hadeeth stating that Prophet Musa asked Allah: Can I mention your name when I am in a place where I feel ashamed to do so? Allah replied: O Musa, mention my name everywhere.
It is recommend to recite Sura Al-Qadr during performing Wudhu where ever you perform Wudhu.
Predestined matters are things which human beings have no option at all in it e.g. your parents, your place of birth, your skin color, your height etc.
Marriage is not predestined because it must have your own option and approval not be valid. Man and woman choose and decide whom they marry and accordingly they meet the results of their own decision.
You can pray to Allah (SWT) to make a specific person good for being your spouse. Allah (SWT) knows everything including the unseen and the future, and He grants whatever is good according to the reality and not necessarily as we think and imagine. Many things we wish and seek from Allah, can be harmful in the future, that is we should always submit to the Will, Wisdom and Mercy of Allah in seeking from Him. We should seek from Him to grant us whatever He knows good for us, not what we think good.