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Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 years ago

The moisture which is emitted because of foreplay is called Mathi مذي and is not Najis and it does not even break Wudhu. Semen gushes out in ejaculation. If no ejaculation, then no Ghusl is obligatory. If the wife reaches climax orgasm just because of foreplay, then Ghusl will be obligatory on her.

If husband and wife have sexual intercourse, Ghusl will be obligatory on both of them even if no ejaculation or orgasm took place as far as the penetration took place.

Wassalam.

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Zoheir Ali Esmail, Shaykh Zoheir Ali Esmail has a Bsc in Accounting and Finance from the LSE in London, and an MA in Islamic Studies from Middlesex University. He studied Arabic at Damascus University and holds a PhD... Answered 4 years ago

Bismillah

Thank you for your question. Oral sex is allowed with a lawful partner (via a valid permanent or temporary marriage contract) in Islam. However, semen and the liquid that comes out of a woman’s vagina when she reaches a climax are najis and so are haram to swallow according to Ay Sistani (hA).

May you always be successful.

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Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 years ago

When she looks like woman ( despite having male organ) means that she is a female. Male parts can be because of genetic abnormality. This can be confirmed by medical tests. She has to be with the females.

Wassalam.

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Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 4 years ago

Bismihi ta'ala

Intimacy is a natural part of our spousal lives as human beings, and having a healthy sexual relationship leads to strengthening of a marriage. It is not only the fulfilling of halal lust, but also  contributes to avoiding of sin, which is why there are numerous Islamic rulings related to spousal intimacy between the husband and wife. Among these rulings is the obligation of 'tamkin' from the wife's side, which means her sexual availablility for the husband. 

Both the husband and wife should facilitate to one another their sexual pleasures, within the rational and shar'i boundaries that are clear and obvious for any believer. The correct approach for this issue is to make sure that emotional and physical needs are fulfilled, and that it is not taken as a means for coercing the wife to accommodate to the husband at times beyond her capacity. 

Therefore, in normal circumstances, and if there is no legitimate excuse, if the wife refuses to accommodate to her husband, she will be committing a sin, and this will lead to nushuz

Of course, if there is coercion, then it means they are not at a level of correct communication, and that they have underlaying problems that they must address. 

The wife must be considerate of this issue, and the husband must also be more considerate and cater to the wife's mood, or her being tired, or anything else that will not bring about any strain to the relationship.

And Allah knows best. 

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Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 years ago

Wife is allowed to touch her husband to arouse herself and him. Same with the husband, who is allowed to touch his wife for the same purpose.

Wassalam.

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Amina Inloes, Amina Inloes is originally from the US and has a PhD in Islamic Studies from the University of Exeter on Shi'a hadith. She is the program leader for the MA Islamic Studies program at the... Answered 4 years ago

Also, one of the best ways to gain sensitivity to something again is to be completely away from it. (In this case, that might involve abstaining from television and movies as well as other things. Of course this can be easier said than done given that it might be difficult due to other people around, etc.) The human being has an enormous capacity to forget, and after a few years of not being exposed to something, it is likely that you will be taken aback by it if you see it. 

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 years ago

The bad effect of the inappropriate images, videos and language needs
to be cleaned from the heart and mind, so that the person can be
gradually purified from that dirt. It starts from a sincere feeling of
sorrow and repentance and from the decision to leave it and never come
back to it. Along with continuous and repeated Istegfaar specially
during the night in the state of Sujood. 

It is very useful to weep or try to weep when you remember such sins. Even a drop of tear of sorrow and repentance extinguishes the fire.

When the heart becomes clear as it was created by Allah SWT, the person will be shocked to see or listen to any of the evil material again. So the main point is how to purify the
heart from the dirt of the sinful acts. The Hadeeths guide to keep on
repeating Istegfaar to achieve more purity in the heart and mind.

Wassalam.

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Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answer updated 4 years ago

​​Nikah is the religious marriage contract between man and woman after reciting it between them, they become husband and wife. Sexual relationship between them depends on the mutual understanding and agreement between them. Usually, there is an understanding that sexual relationship starts when both live together after wedding and not before that. Same also about the responsibility of the husband to spend on his wife, starts when they live together.

Nevertheless, if she agrees to have any sexual relationship or sexual act between her and her husband after  Nikah, it will be allowed.

It is advisable to keep the intimate relationship limited and avoid full sexual intercourse until they live together. 

Wassalam.

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Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 4 years ago

Bismihi ta'ala

Haydh, or the monthly menstrual cycle never exceeds 10 days, if it does not have a regular fixed normal number of days. Therefore, the wife should do ghusl, and anything more than that is Istihadhah, which means she can have marital relations with her husband.

And Allah knows best.

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Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answer updated 4 years ago

Bismihi ta'ala

Any kind of sexual interaction with a non-mahram is prohibited, Islamically immoral, and a major sin. There is what we call Zina of the limbs, where one commits Zina with their eyes, by unlawful looking, or Zina by their hands, by unlawful touching, and so on. 

May Allah ta'ala protects us all from such. 

That being said, jurisprudentially the technical meaning of "Zina" is unlawful sexual intercourse.  

And Allah knows best.

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Mateen Charbonneau, Sheikh Mateen Joshua Charbonneau achieved a certificate from Harvard University in Islamic Studies. He undertook Howza classes under esteemed scholars since 2013 and has been teaching at Imam Mahdi... Answered 4 years ago

If there is no water available then one should make tayyamum in place of ghusl. If there is water available then one must perform ghusl janaba in order to offer salat. 

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Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 years ago

Mut’ah marriage aims to save people from sexual sinful acts. A married man should always consider the comfort of his wife and family and never cause his wife or family any pain. If his wife is unwell or away from him and he needs to save himself from sin by Mut’ah, he is allowed to do so without causing any pain to his wife / family.

Causing pain to wife or family is unacceptable, as Islam teaches us to be nice to our spouses as the Hadeeth says: (Best of you are the best to their spouses, and I am the best to my spouses).

Wassalam.