1. Will power is the key for patience. More we strengthen our will power, more we are able to control ourselves and be patient.
2. Right timing comes from proper thinking after consultation with sincere experienced persons. When we want start something, we need to think about:
A) What are the requirements for achieving it?
B) Can we arrange for the requirements?
C) What do we expect from it if we get it?
D) What do we expect if we fail to get it?
E) What are the expected negative points if we get it ?
F) What are the expected negative points if we fail to get it?
Weighing and assessing the possibilities can help us make proper decision as much as we can.
Sometimes Estikhara can help us if we are not able to decide despite consultations.
Seeking help from Allah (SWT) is always required. He helps every servant who sincerely seeks His guidance and help with the Blessings of His most humble servants, Muhammad and his Holy Progeny (SAWA).