Every pious believer including the martyr will be dying with peace and will see Ahlul Bayt (AS) on his death, who will give him glad tidings about the Mecry of Allah for pious believers. Angles of mercy will also give the pious believer glad tidings and look after him. Martyrs never die, but remain alive in a type of life which we can not feel as Allah says in Quran (And say not of those who were killed in the Way of Allah as dead. Nay, they are living but you perceive not. (Sura 2, verse 154).
Every believer who dies on the love of Ahlul Bayt will die as a Shaheed. This is according to Hadeeth narrated from the Prophet Muhammad (SAWA) in Shia and Sunni books like
1- Tafseer Al-Zamakhshari V. 4,
2- Tafseer Al-Fakhr al-Raazi, V.27. P. 165.
3- Tafseer Al-Qurtubim V.16, P.22 and 23.
4- Tafseer Ibn Arabi, V. 2, P. 219.
5- 'Tafseer Al-Tha'aalibi, الثعالبي V. 5, P. 157.
6- Yanabee' Al-Mawaddah by Al-Qondoozi Al-Hanafi, V. 2, P.332.
Lady Maria Bint Sham'oon was a very pious wife of the Prophet Muhammad (SAWA) and the only wife after Lady Khadija who had a child from the Prophet (SAWA). She suffered a lot from the jealousy of Aysha daughter of Abu Bakr and Hafsa daughter of Umar. She was been accused by them of having her son Ibrahim from another man. This false allegation was refuted in Quran.(Sura Al-Noor, verse 11). She continued suffering from them after the passing away of the Prophet for five years. She passed away on Muharram, year 16 after Hijra, during the government of Umar and was buried in Al-Baqee'.
It is your decision whether or not to remarry. Now that your husband has passed on, I am sure he would want you to be happy and more secure for the rest of your life.
However, possibly you are still going through the mourning process and aren't ready; maybe if you meet the right person and it is the right time, you will feel inside that it is the right time. Maybe the way you are seeing things right now suggests that it isn't quite the right time.
Religiously speaking, there is no benefit to putting extra restrictions on ourselves or making ourselves suffer more than our circumstances require. Sometimes people do this with a sense that Allah rewards difficulty. However, life is difficult enough without putting extra restrictions on ourselves!
People in jannah can be with whoever they want, whether or not they remarry.
As sad as it may be to lose a spouse, remarrying is completely your choice, and it will not undermine your loyalty to your marhum husband. Loneliness is never good, so if the opportunity arises that you can marry a noble, caring, pious and religious man, you should do so. This will certainly not affect who you will be in the afterlife, in Heaven, in shaa Allah.
Life is challenging, and having a partner of good choice will assist you in everything coming ahead of you, in shaa Allah.
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