Only If…

Allah and His representatives have given us the best rules for a great marital life. They have explained every minute detail. If we follow the rules mentioned by Allah and the Prophet (s.a.w.a.) and observe the rights which they have informed us about, then life will never be distasteful, there wouldn’t be any arguments, no dissatisfaction, our homes would remain safe and children would also grow up to be the best.

But:

When we do not observe these rights, do not follow the rules or cross our limits, life turns boring and marital life falls prey to differences and it will lead to all that is happening these days. This is the result of going against the commands of Allah and His Messenger (s.a.w.a.).

Only if we would have truly acted upon the Islamic teachings, behaved well with each other for the satisfaction of Allah and His Messenger (s.a.w.a.), not worried about how the other person behaves with us rather think about how we can put forth our best and that no one should precede us in good character.

The best character, morals and etiquette, nobility and sacrifice, forgiveness and pardon, patience and forbearance… I should be the best in all aspects… Insha Allah.

Wassalaam

اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰہِ اَوَّلًاوَ آخِراً.

رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا اِنَّكَ اَنْتَ الْغَفُوْرُ الرَّحِیْمُ.

اَللّٰہُمَّ صَلِّی عَلٰی مُحَمَّدٍ وَ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَجِّلْ فَرَجَہُمْ وَاَحْصَیْنَا مِنْ اَعْوَانِہٖ وَ اَنْصَارِہٖ بِحَقِّ اُمِّ الْاَئِمَّۃِ عَلَیْہَا اَفْضَلُ الصَّلٰوۃِ وَالسَّلَامِ.