The Importance Of Communication In Marriage

And one of the points that we have to keep in mind about communication is that communication does not always have to be serious, where only when things are spiraling out of control do we say, "Okay, we need to figure this out". Rather, if communication has always existed within a marriage, where I tell my wife my thoughts, where she tells me her ideas, there is this constant back and forth taking place between a husband and a wife, then communication does not have a negative connotation to it.

Right now, communication rings off bells like: if one of your spouses or your spouse says, "We need to talk", and you are like, "Oh God, what did I do now?" But if we have always developed communication; if we have always talked; if we have always shared ideas, then you find that communication does not give off this negative vibe that oftentimes is associated with it.