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Wife . Pregnancy . Mut'a (Temporary marriage) . Sexual

Does the Sharia allow you to perform Mutah in a situation when your wife isn't able to have intimacy with you due to a high risk pregnancy and the period of such lack of intimacy exceeds 9 months?

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 anni fa

Mut'ah marriage is a way to save people from falling into sinful acts but such type of marriage has conditions which must be fulfilled. If you need to save yourself from falling into sinful act through going for Mut'ah marriage, you need to get your Muslim wife's permission if you want to do the Mut'ah with a woman from People of Book (Ahlul Kitab) like Christians or Jews.

Wassalam.

123721

Husband . Wife . Sexual

If a husband and wife are physically away from each other, is it allowed for the two of them to have virtual sex via utilizing a sexual device placed over their private parts that is controlled by the other spouse remotely?

It is not allowed for any one to use sexual device for personal use.
It is allowed for husband and wife to use such devices for other spouse only.

If the sexual device is totally controlled remotely by the other spouse, then it will be allowed.

Wassalam.

123729

Sin . Sexual . Desire

What happens if you keep committing a sin to fulfil your sexual desire, then stop, but then you end up doing it again on purpose even though you know it is wrong? How does one rectify such a situation?

Zoheir Ali Esmail, Shaykh Zoheir Ali Esmail has a Bsc in Accounting and Finance from the LSE in London, and an MA in Islamic Studies from Middlesex University. He studied Arabic at Damascus University and holds a PhD... Answered 4 anni fa

Bismillah

Thank you for your question. In short, you have to keep trying until the sexual desire starts to subside. When you have committed sins relating to sexual desires the desire becomes more intense and so trying to prevent it takes a lot of willpower. At times, in the beginning, the desire overcomes the willpower even if you know what you are doing is wrong which results in a lot of guilt. That guilt needs to be used to increase your willpower until you can finally break the cycle and then over time the desire will become subdued and controllable. It is also important to seek halal means to fulfil sexual desires so that you have an outlet as sexual desires without an outlet become all the more intense.

Just keep going and don't give up. In the end with a lot of effort, you will succeed and after a time those sins will be a thing of the past.

May you always be successful

123317

Woman . Ghusl . Sexual

Is it obligatory for woman to perform Ghusal is she has orgasm and ejaculates liquid without having intercourse?

Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 4 anni fa

Bismihi ta'ala

In brief, yes, it will be wajib for her to do ghusl janabah.

And Allah knows best.

123252

Girl . Sexual . Domestic violence . Therapy

Is it permissible for a Muslim girl to visit a psychiatrist and undergo therapy? Is it permissible to talk to them about a sexual assault undergone by her, or will that be disallowed as revealing the sin of another person?

Muslim female should go to female psychiatrist and get required therapy from females.

Talking about your previous sins is not good unless it is advised by the doctors as part of the treatment.
Wassalam.

122898

Wife . Ghusl . Sexual

If I want to have intercourse with my wife twice in the same night is it required to perform Ghusl before the second intercourse?

It is not obligatory to perform Ghusl before the second one.

Wassalam.

119602

Woman . Sexual . Ghusl

If a woman experiences an involuntary orgasm, without imagining or performing sexual acts, will she have to perform Ghusl for Janabah?

If liquid comes out on orgasm, she has to perform Ghusl of Janabah.

Wassalam.

119062

Wife . Husband . Sexual

If a wife refuses intimacy with her husband for several months what should he do?

Wife is not allowed to refuse fulfilling her husband's sexual needs if she is not in her menstruation or post-natal or any other medical reason. Refusing intimacy with her husband is a sinful act.

Husband should try to nicely convince his wife including removing any reason which might have caused her to refuse intimacy. He should be very clean and wear perfume which she like and try to talk to her nicely to make her ready to respond to him.

After doing all that, if she continues to refuse intimacy with her husband, she might need counselling from trusted persons from her female relatives e.g. her mother, her sister etc.

She can be advised to seek guidance from trusted religious scholars or consultants.

Avoid using pressure on your wife because it might give wrong results. Intimacy in its best form is a result of a human delicate feeling, but if she is not ready for it in its best form, she should never deny giving her husband whatever she can to save him from thinking to go elsewhere to fulfill his natural needs. That is why Islam made it compulsory on the wife to offer what she can to meet the needs of her husband.

Wassalam .

115283

Sexual

Is oral sex allowed in Islam?

Bismihi ta'ala

Yes, and for details, please read the following reply from Seyed Shobayri:

https://www.al-islam.org/ask/is-oral-sex-between-married-couples-allowed...

114229

Husband . Wife . Sexual . Menstruation (Haidh)

Can a husband force his wife to perform oral sex when she has her period and can she tell him she doesn’t feel like it?

He is not allowed to force her to do something more than the usual sexual intercourse which she does not like to do.
Sexual intercourse is forbidden during menstrual period.

Oral sex is not obligatory on her.

Wassalam.

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Man . Wife . Ghusl . Sexual . Wudu (Ablution)

When a man has intercourse with his wife, then should he only do Ghusl or do Wudu as well?

Seyed Ali Shobayri, Seyed Ali Shobayri is of mixed Iranian and Scottish descent who found the path of the Ahlul Bayt (a) by his own research. He holds a BA in Islamic Studies from Middlesex University through the... Answered 4 anni fa

Bismillah,

Asalamu Alaykom,

After a man engages in intercourse with his wife, he'll be in a state of spiritual impurity. So in order for him to be in a state of purity again, he just needs to perform the ghusl al Janaba and this will also give make him in the state wudu as well, so no need to do wudu.

If however during the ghusl or after he would do an action which would break wudu, then he would have to repeat the wudu again and not the ghusl.

May Allah grant you success

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Woman . Marriage . Sexual . Mut'a (Temporary marriage)

I am a married woman with a very high sex drive whereby I am not fully satisfied with my husband even though we are sexually active. Is it permissible for me to do Mutah whilst being married?

Not at all. It is impossible for a married woman to even think about any sexual matter with any one apart from her husband.

Mut'ah is a type of marriage. As it is impossible for a married woman to marry another man while she is already married, it is impossible for her to do Mut'ah while is she is married.

You might need to consult a lady doctor for a medical advice to control your very high sex drive. It is always good to discuss such matters with your husband.

Wassalam.

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