Grandparents

Grandparents are the parents of a person's father or mother – paternal or maternal.

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My grandfather mentioned to me that his mother was a Sayyeda. Does that mean I am a descendant of the Prophet Muhammad (s)?

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 1 month ago

Being a descendant of a person or a family depends on the definition of descendant. In general you are a descendant of all your grandfathers and grand mothers. But if you ask about being a Sayyed, then the definition of a Sayyed is the person who was born from a Sayyed father. So, your grandfather is related to the Prophet's family from his mother, but since his father was not a Sayyed, he is not a Sayyed. This is the verdict of most of our great scholars.

Wassalam.

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Family . Conversion to Islam . Christianity . Grandparents . Du'a (Supplication)

I am a revert and my family is Christian, mostly Catholic. My grandmother passed away today. What Dua and actions can I perform so that Allah could bless her with entry to paradise?

Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 8 months ago

Bismihi ta'ala

As the holy verse in the Quran says God's mercy encompasses all. You can ask the Almighty to show His mercy upon them, and overlook their shortcomings, etc.

Unfortunately some Muslim groups believe it is haram to prayfor a non-Muslim in any way, but reality is such an approach is difficult for one whose family might not have recognised Islam and be good people.

Just requesting Almighty God to show His mercy would hopefully assist them in their next life.

And Allah knows best.

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Sister . Islam . Marriage . Grandparents

My grandfather passed away yesterday while my sister was supposed to get married next week. I want to know if it is allowed in Islam for the marriage to continue as planned?

Amina Inloes, Amina Inloes is originally from the US and has a PhD in Islamic Studies from the University of Exeter on Shi'a hadith. She is the program leader for the MA Islamic Studies program at the... Answered 1 year ago

It is allowed and he would probably be happy about the marriage, however, it is understandable if the family wishes to postpone it. Also, some cultures have viewpoints about these things (which are not specifically prescribed by Islamic law but could be taken into consideration although it is not required to adhere to cultural viewpoints).

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Grandparents . Christianity . Lady Maryam

My grandmother, who is a religious Greek orthodox Christian, has claimed to have seen the Virgin Mary. Is it possible in Islam for someone to see her in a vision?

What evidence does she have that she saw Virgin Mary herself or what she imagined as Virgin Mary?

Many people think and imagine according to their thinking. We can not take their claim as reality.

'Wassalam.

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Grandparents . Du'a (Supplication) . Conversion to Islam . Buddhism

My maternal grandparents are Buddhists and they are very good human beings. Is there any Dua for conversion of a non-Muslim to a Muslim and to make their hearts fill with love for the Ahlulbayt in this life and in the next?

Bismihi ta'ala

It's greatly noble that they are very good people, and for sure their nurturing contributed to your personality as well.

As you know, religion and becoming religious is a choice that must come from within. Even as Muslims, we always pray to Almighty God to keep us "guided" on the right path. Hidayah, or guidance is in the hands of the Almighty. If your grandparents, or anyone else around you has a potential that Allah ta'ala sees in them, then they will be guided to the light of Iman. If they do not "convert" to Islam, it does not mean they are evil, but just that hidayah is with the Almighty.

The best thing you can do is set yourself with high standards in your conduct, in your ambitions in life, and show those around you how a true Muslim should be.

That itself is a great form of conveying the message of Islam, and then it is up to them to investigate, or ask questions, and so on.

If you see that your grandparents are interested, or have questions, discuss what you know with them. However, never allow it to become an argument, or upset them, as they are your grandparents.

In any case, always do dua for yourself, your parents, your grandparents, your siblings and everyone else, that God showers them with His compassion and Mercy. Ask the Almighty to enlighten your hearts, and ask Him for guidance.

You can also do tawassul to Ahlul Bayt (a.s.), to give you the strength you need, and introduce them to Ahlul Bayt (a.s.), in a positive manner. You dont know what the outcome will be, but at least they will think positive of your religion, and understand you more.

With prayers for your success.

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Mahram . Wife . Grandparents

Is the son-in-law Mahram to the maternal grandmother of his wife?

Yes. Grand mother of the wife is Mahram just like her real mother.

wassalam.

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Islam . Man . Brother . Daughter . Marriage . Grandparents

Is it allowed in Islam for a man to marry his grandfather's brother's daughter?

As she is not a Mahram for him, marriage with her is permissible if all other conditions are fulfilled.

Wassalam.

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Girl . Father . Mut'a (Temporary marriage) . Grandparents

If a virgin and financially independent girl wants to do Mutah, but both her father and grandfather have passed away, whose permission does she require?

If her father and paternal are dead, she will be allowed to marry a believer who is compatible to her in Religion and morals.

Wassalam.

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Grandparents . Parents . Marriage

What should be done if your grandparents are unhappy for you to marry someone but your parents have no issue about marrying the woman?

You need to keep the respect of your grand parents in every possible way, provided that your marriage choice is according to Islamic teachings. The objection of your grand parents does not invalidate the marriage if there is no valid reason for their objection.

Wassalam.

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Bed . Grandparents

Is it permissible for a 14 year old boy to sleep in the same bed as his grandmother who is not able to sleep alone after the death of her husband?

Bismihi ta'ala

It is the etiquette of Islam that beds are not shared with someone of a different gender, whether they be related or not.

In this particular situation, it would be better to sleep in the same room, but on a different bed, or alternative options.

And Allah knows best.

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Praise . Abu Bakr . Grandparents . Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq

Is it true that Abu Bakr was the great grandfather of Imam al Sadiq (as) and he used to praise him?

Rebecca Masterton, Dr Rebecca Masterton graduated with a BA in Japanese Language and Literature; an MA in Comparative East Asian and African Literature and a PhD in Islamic literature of West Africa. She has been... Answered 3 years ago

Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq (as) was a descendent of Abu Bakr through his mother. After Abu Bakr died, his wife Asma married Imam Ali, and thus Abu Bakr's son, Muhammad,was raised by 'Ali ibn Abi Talib. He became a staunch 'Alawi supporter, openly protesting against the corruption of the third caliph 'Uthman and taking part in the siege against 'Uthman's palace. He became a general in the army of Imam Ali, and fought for him at the Battle of the Camel (against Talha, Zubayr and his own sister Aisha) and at Siffeen against Mu'awiya (who had been made governor of Syria by 'Umar ibn Khattab). 'Ali ibn Abi Talib made him governor of Egypt during his short caliphate, but Ibn Abi Bakr was killed by the army of Amr ibn al-As who operated under Mu'awiya's governorship.

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Son . Inheritance . Grandparents . Justice

Is it true that if a grandfather A has two sons B and C and each of them have a son each called E and F, and then if B dies while A is still alive, there is no inheritance from A that will go to E? How is that fair for E?

Mohammad Saeed Bahmanpour, Sheikh Mohammad Saeed Bahmanpour is lecturer of Islamic Studies at the Islamic College for Advanced Studies, London, and a visiting lecturer at the University of Cambridge, Faculty of Oriental... Answered 3 years ago

There is no difference in this regard between any of the grandchildren. As long as a child lives his or her children or the children of other siblings would not inherit.